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Winning A Belt Buckle

I collect belt buckles. I buy them at yard sales, on ebay, and have been given them as gifts. My favorite is from the West Bay Sanitation District celebrating their 95th anniversary.

I  have always wanted to  win a belt buckle. I would rather wear a belt buckle I won than wear a belt buckle I bought on ebay. I won a 10 speed bike in high school in a raffle. I couldn’t put my bike on a belt, and the contest was based on odds not on skill, so the bike doesn’t count as a win.

I was Market Goat Leader for Felton 4-H in Santa Cruz County, California for the last two years we lived there.  I was going to raise a carcass goat for the Santa Cruz County Fair Carcass Goat Contest.   The goats entered in the contest would be judged in the ring and on the rack for a monetary prize and a belt buckle.  My older daughter had entered the carcass contest the year before and came in second.  I was going to enter the carcass contest the next county fair,  but we were moving to Pennsylvania and I wouldn’t have a chance to raise a goat.  If I didn’t win the belt buckle,  I would still get to eat my goat.

My friend Rebekah in California is a gymkhana horse rider. She  runs District 9 in Boulder Creek California, The Redwood Riders. She has won several saddles and belt buckles competing in  barrels, single stake, quadrangle, speedball, figure 8 flags and  keyhole. She is so brave. She rides a horse that is moving fast. She is   high in the air, on an animal.  I wouldn’t be winning a belt buckle in any gymkhana events, as my favorite event would be standing still, my speed, neutral.

When I first met Rebekah I told her I wanted to learn  how to ride a horse. She often went riding in the hills early in the morning. I told her  I was a little nervous to ride but I asked her if she would take me riding with her one morning.  I wanted to be brave. I wanted to try.

One morning as I looked out my kitchen window I saw Rebekah ride into my backyard on Bear Creek Road in Boulder Creek, with two saddled horses. It was a little after 7 in the morning. I was up early about to work on the fence I was building. Why does she have two horses? I wonder who she is going to go riding with?

The second horse was for me.

Oh my.

I put on a pair of black leather cowboy boots she brought for me to wear and a helmet, and got on her horse Jesse James. A big boy. 28 hands high?  Okay, 16 hands. But I was far away from the gravel driveway. I was up in the air on an animal. Oh no, the horse moved. Oh dear, what have I done? Why did I say anything to Rebekah? Now I am on a horse and it is moving!

“I didn’t tell you I was coming, so you didn’t have time to be scared” Rebekah said.

We rode out of the yard onto Bear Creek Road, and then crossed the road and turned up Hopkins Gulch Road. Heading for the hills. We rode our horses. Or I should say we walked our horses,  up a steep one lane road.   To my left the road , to my right a steep drop off. I could almost touch the top of the redwood trees growing  ten thousand miles down the side of the mountain. We could hear a large vehicle gear down as it came down the hill towards us. I was following Rebekah’s horse. She said, “Do not look at the truck. Just look straight ahead. The horse can tell if you get nervous.”

I listened to what she said. And then at the last-minute I ignored her advice,as the truck was beside me, I turned and looked at the truck for one little teeny tiny second and instantly my horse side-stepped.  Rebekah said, “You looked at the truck!”

The bad think about going up a mountain, is that you have to go down the mountain to get home.  I did not like the idea of sitting on top of a horse when I felt like I was falling forward. I was completly ready to dismount and walk down the hill in my black leather boots and lead Jesse James. I think the horse would like me to lead him down the hill. I’ll bet I am really heavy and the poor horse would like a rest.  Rebekah gave me instructions to brace the heel of my boots in the stirrup and lean back. It worked. I didn’t fall forward off of the horse.  I actually stayed on the horse the whole ride and didn’t die. I felt brave and strong and daring. I rode a horse. I was alive. I had survived.

Several day before I left California for Pennsylvania.  Rebekah took me out to dinner.  She put a large square blue velvet box on the table, and said, ” I know you are leaving and won’t have a chance to win a belt buckle before you leave California. I wanted to give you the  belt buckle I won recently at a Gymkhana event.  In the blue box was a silver and gold belt buckle for High Point in the Double A division of the Redwood Riders.

I wear my belt buckle with pride. I didn’t really win high point in the Double A division.  I won’t lie if anyone asks me if I really won the belt buckle.  I will tell them   I rode a horse up a mountain and down the other side.    I will tell them the buckle is a gift from my friend Rebakah who won the buckle.  And that is one thing you can not buy on ebay, a gift from a friend.

About Pamela Hodges

My name is Pamela Hodges. I am a writer and an artist. I write to encourage and to bring laughter. I paint cats, draw cartoons and write books for children and grown ups.

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  • I read this a few days agao and didn’t have time to comment but I keep thinking of it. Such a good tale. I enjoyed every part of it, and I knew we would circle back around to the belt buckle, so the anticipation was egging me on. And then… what a gift, what a friend!

  • I love this story, love your description of being on the horse, love Rebekah for giving you such a truly excellent belt buckle, love that I just learned there is such a thing as a Carcass Goat competition (even though I keep wanting to type “Caracas Goat,” which should maybe be a new kind of competition).

    • Thank you so much for reading my old posts, at 2:31 in the morning no less. I am so happy that you loved this story. My heart is really partly back on Bear Creek Road. Yes, and there should be a new Caracas Goat competition. 🙂

  • No one in the history of the world has had a friend better than your friend Rebekah.

  • berdeane

    Another thing you cannot buy on ebay, a true friend!! Your Mother could never master the art of riding a horse either & I was born & raised on a farm.